About
Why ONWARD?
To allow exceptional individuals to continue Onward in their life with proper support.
Who are we?
Onward Adult Day Center (OADC) is a day center that will provide day services to adults with a variety of disabilities. We are a safe, non-judgmental, and exciting day center that offers programming dedicated to enriching the quality of lives of our adult participants by maximizing their greatest potential in a variety of social, motor, vocational, leisure, and life skills, as well as provide sensory and community integration opportunities.
Who Do we serve?
We aim to serve adults with disabilities in the rural, underserved communities in and around Rosendale, Wisconsin.
- 18+ years of age
- Those with intellectual, developmental, and/or physical disabilities.
OUR WHY
LAYNA LOU
Malayna is our firstborn and just turned 21 in October 2023. She was diagnosed with Tuberous Sclerosis at one month old and began to have seizures at four months. She has many medical symptoms of TSC that affect almost all areas of her body and are monitored regularly, but through it all, she remains a happy-go-lucky sweetheart of a girl. We are very lucky to call Malayna ours and believe me when I tell you that even through the hard stuff, I have never doubted that she was meant to be in our family.
As far as where she is developmentally, well that is a hard thing for me to answer so I will start with the basics. Malayna is still in diapers and on paper most people would put her at the level of a young toddler. She is able to verbally communicate her needs but beyond that most of her speech is repetitive phrases and echolalia and she is unable to communicate pain or emotions. She is dependent on a caregiver/us for bathing, dressing, preparing meals, giving medicine—basically all her daily living skills. All of that aside, she is the queen of one-liners with the gift of great comedic timing. She is stubborn, she can schmooze with the best of them, and has a knack for melting the hearts of even the toughest of folks.
Having a child with special needs is a learning curve, but there are a lot of people and procedures that help you navigate through it. There are children’s hospitals, pediatric doctors, birth-to-three programs, respite programs, daycares, and the school district that helps to get your child to adulthood. In my experience, when your special needs child becomes an adult, you face a world that no longer has a network set up. Hospitals and doctors are now equipped to deal with adults, but not ones that still need their parents to hold their hands and change their diapers. All of the caregivers and family members that we once relied on for help have gotten older and are not as readily available or physically able to watch our “kids” as they used to. Most of our original respite workers have now graduated high school and college and are starting families of their own and it gets harder and harder to find a place for our “kids.”
When Malayna turned 16, I toured two adult day centers and I walked away knowing there was no way I would send her there. For the most part, I observed facilities that were well beyond worn with not a lot of meaningful activities happening for their clients. When I picture Malayna’s adulthood, I picture her thriving and continuing to show growth and learn new things—albeit at her own pace. I want her to be excited to get out of the house and go somewhere where she is loved and challenged and celebrated for her uniqueness. I also want to be able to go to work and know that she is safe and comfortable and cared for to my standards (and those are pretty high standards, and I don’t feel bad for having them). The relief I feel knowing that all of those things I pictured for Malayna are now a reality is far beyond what I can put into words. Chanel and my dad (Charlie) are two of the most loving, selfless, and driven people I have ever met. I could not tell you the amount of research, facility tours, brainstorming, and hours of work that were put into Onward before the current building was ever purchased. This facility is so needed, and to see it coming together at the right time, in the right place, and for the right reasons gives me so much hope for the future of my “kids” and everyone else who deserves a chance to continue learning and growing into and throughout their adulthood.
Abby Kopf
Malayna’s Mom
NEWLY
updated building
OUR FACILITY
Built for You
A lot of time and research went into building the best facility possible for our adult participants at OADC!
- Sensory Room
- Learning Kitchen
- Arts + Crafts Room
- Social/Life Skills Classroom
- Car Port, for easy loading/unloading
- and more!
HOURS: Monday-Friday | 7:30 AM-5 PM
Closed on all major holidays.
Chanel Gillian
CO-OWNER/FOUNDER
Malayna + Kinsey’s “Auntie Nellie”
Chanel, UW-Stevens Point and Fox Valley Technical College alum, is a certified Occupational Therapy Assistant with many years of in-home therapy for those on the autism spectrum under her belt. She is an active member of the International Lions Club – Eldorado, and the Co-VP of Internal Affairs for the WI Occupational Therapy Association. One of her favorite experiences was working at the WI Lions Camp, a camp for adults with disabilities for a summer in Colorado. When not working, Chanel enjoys spending time with her husband and fur babies, playing board games, adventuring, reading, photography, and attending concerts/musicals. She comes from a large, close-knit family and spends as much time with them as possible. Using her OTA skills, compassion for others, and determination to serve individuals like her nieces, she is excited to see OADC flourish and give the community the opportunity for peace of mind for their loved ones.
Charlie Becker
CO-OWNER/FOUNDER
Malayna + Kinsey’s “Papa Charles”
Charlie is a businessman, an entrepreneur, a realist, and above all, a family man who wants his grandkids and those like them to succeed. He is constantly thinking of how he can better his community, help his neighbors, and refuses to slow down! He has been an entrepreneur since he was young, owning many successful businesses, a landlord, and an auctioneer by trade. He is a member of the International Lions Club – Eldorado, an involved member of his church, and has been recognized many times for playing various roles throughout his lifetime in his community. In the winter, Charlie enjoys traveling (for work and to relax) down south. Aside from that, he stays connected to his many family and friends, enjoys playing Sheepshead, and is an avid classic car and Jack Daniels collector.